Extending boundaries

Our kiddos are growing up. It's unavoidable, and so obvious, as D stretches out to almost my height. Wow. As they grow, Brian and I realize that we need to stretch their boundaries as well. I've been really contemplating this as I've read Cleaning House by Kay Wyma. But, I've discovered it's more about extending their responsibilities than their privileges. Our kids are capable. We need to let them take charge. Armed with this information, we've challenged Mimi, or promoted her, to appetizer chef. Basically, we've tasked her with preparing something for us to nibble on as the afternoon turns into early evening. She loves the creativity, socialization, service and, frankly, power. The girl likes to be in charge! For the moment, she's simply pulling together fruits and veggies, crackers, and cheese. But, it fills the family's ever-hungry tummies with healthy(ish) snacks and empties our frig. Today, she and D took the reins at Trader Joe's and selected cheeses that will grace our table this week. D chose Gouda; Mimi chose goat cheese. I'm looking forward to both of them! As we're stretching them, the Lord is stretching me - more like prying my fingers away from my desire to control everything. I'm thankful that He continues to shape and conform me. And, the benefits keep coming. Sweet Mimi just asked if I wanted a glass of water as she headed to the kitchen. Love that girl and her big heart!